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(Why You Shouldn't Chase Internet Tactics That Could Get You Mace in the Face)

The Wisdom Filter: What Most Online Dating Coaches Won’t Tell You

Let’s have a grown-man moment.

There’s a tidal wave of “dating advice” online — flashy videos with dramatic music, confident guys cold-approaching women like they’re action heroes. But here’s the truth:

A lot of them aren’t dating coaches — they’re content creators.
Their real goal? More views. More shock. More money. And what does that mean for you? It means you’re seeing the highlight reel of a social experiment, not a blueprint for real-life success.

“Run Up From Behind” — And Other Ways to Get Mace in the Face

Some of the worst advice online tells men to chase down an attractive woman from behind. Let’s be clear:

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That’s not “boldness” — it’s reckless and threatening. In real life, this can go left real quick. You could get:

• Cursed out.
  
  

• Pepper sprayed.
  
  

• Or go viral for all the wrong reasons.

  High-caliber men don’t move like that. We move with presence, not pressure.

✅ The better way? Approach from a respectful angle. Make eye contact. Read the room. Wait for the green light. Then glide in like the man you are — calm, collected, and in command.

Red Flag:

The Instant Number Giveaway

Those videos where a provocatively dressed woman gives her number in 10 seconds? They love to say, “It’s because I was confident.” But here’s what they don’t say:

Some women hand out numbers quickly because of low self-worth, neediness, or trauma.

A woman with no self-protective filter isn’t a prize — she may be a project that you’re not looking to build from scratch.

You’re not hunting easy access — you’re screening for shared values.

Flip the Script: Offer her Your Number —

Yes, this valuable nugget was mentioned before, but it slips under the rader of so many so-called online dating gurus that it's worth repeating. Instead of begging like a peasant, invite with poise like a king.

Be that royal gentalman that shows up like the class-act that you are and give her your number first. Let her check you out. You don't have anything to hide, right? Show her that you're not in a rush to “close,” your aim is genuine connection..

That’s elite masculine energy — and it’s magnetic.

Bottom Line:

Don’t trade long-term respect for a short-term ego boost.
Don’t imitate guys chasing cameras — become the man who draws the right women with his presence, not pressure.

You're not a boy trying to impress TikTok. You're a man on a mission building his legacy of love.

Now Unlocking: Module 3…

[Bonus Module-2] Real Game vs. Fake Fame